Things I Love About My Son

his amazing smile...the way it feels when he falls asleep in my arms...his soft skin...his belly button...the funny noises he makes...his eyelashes...the dimples in his hands...his excitement when he sees his daddy...the way his cheeks reach down to his chin to form a perfect square...his curls...his unconditional love for me...the way he smells after a bath...the way he still looks like a baby when he wears pjs...his laugh...seeing him accomplish a new milestone...knowing he is the Lord's creation...his naked bottom...his silly faces...his determination to never give up...the way he examines his own hands...the noises he makes when he is dreaming...the way he smiles at me when he is nursing...the significant meaning of his name, "God has heard"...the way he notices everything...his ability to make a complete strangers day by flashing a toothless grin...how he has increased my heart for the unborn...the way he has taught me to be unselfish...how he excitedly kicks and raises his hands when I enter his bedroom...his trusting eyes...

Our New Normal

Wow, Jayden turned 8 months old yesterday! I have to admit that I am just now "settling in" to my new life. Each month of his life with us has brought new joys. Each month seems easier and more joyous than the one before. It has been a challenge for me to forgoe all of the good feelings one gets from being in the business world. Sometimes my new life has seemed pretty insignificant...changing diapers and playing with baby all day every day. However, I am learning more than ever that my job is incredibly significant and my consistency in Jayden's life is invaluable. I have really been embracing each moment with him (yes, friends even the middle of the night ones). Sometimes at night I hold him extra long because I know that soon he will not fit on his mother's lap. I want to cherish each prescious moment he is here with us. Thankfully I am learning to do that more and more.

My new-mother advice for any new (or old) mothers is this...hold, cuddle, kiss, rock and love your baby as much as you can. They are only babies for a season and it's a short one. I hope to take my own advice much sooner next time around!

Peek-A-Boo...We're Back!

Hey Blogger-ific world, the Summerville's are back! I'll try to be a better bloggie-mommy this time around.

One Family

I just realized that I somehow mangaged to put the slideshow up three times. As I looked at them (all three of them) I felt a really overwhelming sense of completeness as I saw my family and Demetrius' family as one. We have spent the last three Christmas' together under one roof. No Christmas Eve with yours and Christmas day with mine. What a huge relief and a sweet togetherness we have found.

It's funny because people often ask us how our families feel about our interracial marriage. I think a lot of people assume that our families couldn't possible approve, much less like (and might I say "love") one another. Praise God that we have found much acceptance and support. I really think our marriage has been a testimony of what God can do when we trust him with our lives. Along with that, comes the beautiful picture two believing families...a single representation of one new race.

For he himself is our peace, who has made the two one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, by abolishing in his flesh the law with its commandments and regulations. His purpose was to create in himself one new man out of the two, thus making peace, and in this one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility. Ephesians 2: 14-16

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New Year's Pictures

These are just a few of my favorite pictures we have taken since the new year began. Jayden is growing so much and it's amazing to watch him learn new things...almost daily. He loves to clap his hands and roll to his desired destination. He remains toothless and somewhat stationary. He is beginning to scoot along a little (mostly backwards). He has started to pull up to a squatting postition and sometime to a full standing position. He's still so cute and cuddly but is getting "busier" as the days pass. He is always checking out the scenery and never seems to sit still. He's still not the best sleeper ever but he is getting so much better!

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Six Month Reflections

Jayden is now six months old! I am amazed at how fast he is learning new things but even more amazing is what he teaches us about ourselves. I have learned that I am so selfish and at the absolute same time I am crazy about this little guy. I am reminded constantly that he is a gift from God Himself. We are so thankful that we have been entrusted to raise him. He just spent his first night away from mommy and daddy and I must say we all did quite well! Thanks Gram and Pop! Jayden just had his six month check up and all was well with him, even the shots were okay. He is 19lbs. 10oz. (75th-90th percentile) and almost 27 inches long (50th percentile). A "healthy chubby" as I like to call it.

Work has been going pretty well. Again, I am learning so much. I am working with two families who are adopting from China and one who has just adopted from the Ukraine. I have completed one domestic adoption and have had one fall through at the last minute. I am also working with two other young women who are facing a crisis pregnancy. The last couple of months have challenged me to look at adoption in a different way.

I now understand at least one purpose in God allowing couples to experience infertility. I have seen so much pain in their empty arms and have seen a glimpse of their years of heartache that I will never know. However, the truth is that these couple are fulfilling the mandate to look after "orphans in their distress." My question is...are these couples the only ones that are mandated to do this? I think the answer is a loud "no!" After all, we don't just become parents to meet a need of our own. We are entrusted to care for children and to raise them in the training and instruction of the Lord. Needless to say, I am challenged and am challenging you to consider the call to care for the abandoned orphans oversees and even the babies in the U.S. who will be placed for adoption by a loving and indescribably selfless birth mother.

He's Growing Too Fast!

Forgive us for being such bad bloggers. Our camera is broken so these are actually pictures we have taken with our camera phones. Hope you enjoy and I hope to post some more soon! Jayden is getting so big and he is so much fun! He is about 18 pounds and 26.5 inches long. He loves to smile and roll over (but gets upset when he can't roll back). We are so happy that we have such a sweet little boy!

It's Been Too Long...

Well, I know it's been way too long since I've posted so I'm just gonna put some pics on really quickly. As you can see Jayden is getting chubbier and happier by the day! He is such a joy in our lives.

Family Pictures

Here are a few new pictures. Our compliments to the wonderful photographer...thanks Jerri-Lynn!

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Jayden and His Girls...

Paige Parks loves Baby Jayden. She got to hold him for the first time a few days ago and she was very excited. Jayden has also been able to hang out in the bumbo chairs with his friend Olivia Brazier.

Two Months Old

Here are a few recent pictures...Jayden is now 11lbs 12oz (50th percentile) and 24 inches long (75th percentile). He is smiling a ton and getting cuter by the day! Thanks for letting us brag a little...